Feminism. We all have heard this word but only a few understand the real meaning of it. Feminism is to give equal rights to women. And, from equal rights it implies equality at every point of women’s life. From understanding their feelings to letting them do the things which they want in life. Here are the most important things about women which I noted from Chetan Bhagat latest novel ‘One Indian girl’. This book describes the word ‘Feminism’ well.

 1. At times girls want to be wanted even when they deny it.

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They want someone around them every time even though they pretend that they don’t want you. But believe me, they want your attention.

2. She wants you to involve in her happiness. 

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~taken from wallpaperup.com

Like, if your girl gets a promotion or anything else like that then you need to praise her. Always remember that if she doesn’t see a smile on your face due to her achievement then the achievement doesn’t value much to her.Always remember that if she doesn’t see a smile on your face due to her achievement then the achievement doesn’t value much to her.

3. While having sex, make her feel like you’re actually loving her.

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~taken from flickr.com

Now this sounds a bit confusing. So, the thing I want to say is that whenever you’re cuddling up in bed then you have to make her feel better by saying words like ‘you are too beautiful’, instead of using words like ‘you are fucking amazing’.

4. Girls don’t need a choice they need a chance.

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~originally taken from 123rf.com

Imagine that you are forced to make a choice between your work which pays you well and a girl whom you love deeply. What would you feel then? But unfortunately, that’s what we do with the girls. We think that women can’t work in an office as well as look after her family. But wait for a second man. You’re living in the 21st century and here in developed countries women can do both of the things. So, why shouldn’t we let them do what they want to? Above all Psychology says, a women’s mind work better than men in handling the things. Hope you got what I want to say.

5. Girls always need a man to support and inspire her.

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~originally taken from The Twilight Saga : Eclipse

 Remember that quote ‘There’s always a woman behind a man’s success’. This work for women too. A man who inspire and understand her well, that’s what a woman want from you.

6. Women hide her feelings to make others feel better.

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~originally taken from womenshealthmag.com

Isn’t that what we see in our daily lives? Our mother or sister sacrifice many things for us. Why can’t we do the same for them? Because it comes under feminism too. Right?

7. Women just don’t want money. Above everything else, she wants those naughty children for whom she can do everything.

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~originally taken from dreamstime.com

She isn’t as much interested in her job as she is interested in imagining her future with your little kids. Make her imagine the future in which your kids are present too. She doesn’t like her job as much as she loves you.

So, what do you think about Feminism? Do you support it? I think you should because above all Feminism is Humanism. It shows us how good we as a human being are. I would love to hear your views, share your views in the comments section.

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15 thoughts on “Feminism: a word to understand

  1. The niche of your blog is definitely LOVE which suits you well, as your posts are beautifully knitted. Amazing. ๐Ÿ™‚
    As for feminism, oh man, it’s a bit more complex than that, hell it’s hard to understand, every day we come up with a new definition, depending on the culture, traditions, background and so on.

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    1. You are right Kristina…..
      May be I don’t know much about feminism, being a boy but whatever I know from it, I totally support it….
      And yes! Its definition differs according to culture and background but hey wait! Can’t we have its same definition everywhere? Can’t we men ever behave like human beings and prefer humanity above all? By giving equality to our women. We need to think and not only think but we have to act….. Above all we have to change our mindset…..

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      1. I totally agree with you. Feminism is not a club exclusive to women only. The core meaning of it, is that we are all human beings and as such equal to each other despite differences. Well said ๐Ÿ˜Š

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  2. This is really great and empathetic. I like it. feel some women who consider themselves feminists lose sight of what it really means and they think a woman can literally do everything a man can do. This is not the case, there are things that women can do that men can’t handle and things that men can do that women can’t. They are both equally intelligent and both genders compliment each other. There is no competition but no gender is above the other. Each gender should be praised for their differences

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